Truth about love... or is it the same?

The wisdom about love is, that there are no "other humans" to love. And the love one is usually talking about, is loving a belief or a story about a person. But that story obviously doesn't fit to the reality of that person, because she wouldn't run away otherwise, would she? So people are inventing all kinds of boundaries for relationships. Dependencies of any kind, peer-group pressures, promises given under the threat of punishment. The point and the truth is, that you can never really love other "humans", as long as you make up images and stories about them. Bause these imaginary stories would be that, what is loved. Not the being.